Thursday, March 14, 2013

Thank You For Honoring Caleb's Life


Dear Friends,

Two weeks ago, Wednesday, Februrary 27, at one am in the morning two Marines came to our door. The news they brought changed our lives forever. It doesn’t seem like two weeks ago, because time stood still that morning.

“You have many decisions to make,” the company commander spoke to me on the phone. His soothing and assuring manner helped me gain my composure and know that I could do what I had to do.

The past two weeks have been a whirlwind. Many decisions were made to honor my son, Caleb.

Today I am thankful for his life. I thank Caleb for being the giving person he always was. I honor and thank him for serving his country because he loved it and believed in what it stood for. I know he willingly gave all. I thank him and will always regard him in the highest of honor for being a man of integrity. Most of all I thank him for being Caleb. Our love for him lives on.

Our utmost thanks to so many people who showered us with love. To so many who showed gratitude for Caleb’s life.

My neighbors on Paradise Drive lined our street with flags. I have the best neighbors in the world. Thank you.

When, we arrived in Burlington following the funeral car, people holding flags lined Lincoln Street,  Rose Avenue, all the way to the funeral home.  Your allegiance to my son’s life meant so much.

I understand there were flags everywhere in the community. Flags were flown at halfmast in honor of my son. Thank you everyone.

The ride to the cemetery is something I will never forget. There were flags and people along the whole route. Children, elderly....I even saw a couple of bull dogs – the Marines mascot. Huge flags, small flags, children holding signs, people with their hands on their hearts, people saluting….

There were even flags on the fence around the cemetery.

Thanks to the VFW who welcomed our Marines and us and treated us so kindly, opening their doors to us.

Thank you to Pastor Eric Kilborn, Kirsten and Free Life Church. Thank you to Pastor Ron Lee, Kathy and E-Free Church. To Pastor Joe Berry and Sharlyn for commemorating Caleb on your churchsign. Thank you to Pastor Bill Viergutz and Daphne, Jon Reevers and Jenny, Doctor Jason Barnes and Amy – we are all the body of Christ. We were humbled and blessed by all you have done for us.

Thank you to all who came to our home and helped make things easier just by being here. Thank you for all the food, paper goods, and the many beautiful flowers and plants.

Thank you to all who called and for all the prayers. I know they have helped tremendously.

Thank you to Burlington High School – Superintendent Tom Satterly, thank you for working with us. Thank you to all the teachers who took part in helping make things go smoothly for the service-Eileen Jones, Andy Salvador, Russell Gramm, Steve Poet and his class, Miss Yowell and her class. Thank you Judy Rainbolt for watching out for us. Thank you Mason Witzel, MacKenzie Reeverts and Jon Reeverts for decorating the halls in red, white and blue.

Thank you to the students who lined the halls, and silently and respectfully stood, while the Marine Honor Guard brought our flag draped casket to the gym.

Thank you to Mason Witzel, Hudson Lee, Adily Hendricks, and MacKenzie Reeverts for videoing and taking pictures. Thank you Susan Corliss for taking pictures  as well. These will be priceless treasures for us in years to come. You all are wonderful. We go way back and you all are like family.

Thank you to the Police and Sheriff Departments and the Patriot Guard for having our backs and taking care of business.

Thank you Bryan Russell for working with us. Thank you for standing with us and making decisions on our behalf concerning the media.

 Gratitude fills my heart. Words don’t seem adequate. I am honored to be part of a caring, patriotic community. There is something about grassroots America, farm country - and her heart for our military, and our country.

Our Marine family was overwhelmed by the support our community paid to Caleb. “You don’t see this hardly anywhere, anymore.” Many of the Marines present have been to funerals of other fallen Marines. They had never seen such an outpouring of support and love.

We have been in touch with our Recon Marine family, and they continue to tell us how meaningful being here was. Those who couldn’t come have asked how everything was here. Our Recon Marines tell them about a community who showed their respect for Caleb, and for our country. To these men, it gives hope for our nation

 The memories you lent to these Recon Marines will stay with them a lifetime. You stood for what they fight for, for what they are willing to lay down their lives for.

Thank you to all who came to Caleb’s service to celebrate his life. We wanted to share the Caleb we knew. He loved his God, his family and his country. He filled our lives with laughter and challenged us to be more than we thought we could be– not by what he said, but by how he lived.

We plan on continuing to live that challenge.

I am proud and blessed to stand for that freedom, and am grateful to be part of a community willing to stand and honor a man who knew that freedom wasn’t free.

Caleb gave all.

God bless you all.

 Again, thank you.

Caleb Medley’s family – George and Diane Homm, Nathan, Josiah, Collen Medley, Melanie and Marshall Thomas

13 comments:

  1. What a moving and fitting way to acknowledge others in the midst of your mourning. You have honored Caleb and thanked those there who loved on you and paid your son the utmost respect he is due! Our prayers remain with you and your family from Oklahoma! God Bless you now and in the days ahead!

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    1. Thank you Brenda. Pryer is so powerful. I know it is the prayers that have helped carry us through. Thank you for honoring my son.

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  2. May the God of all the earth bless you and strengthen you in the days to come. He knows your pain, He will give perfect peace, those who keep their minds stayed on Him.
    I have two daughters in the Bethune-Burlington community. I love that they are out there.
    I thank you for your son' service and his and your sacrifice.
    God Bless you always,
    Kathy Currier

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  3. God bless you and yours..

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  4. I am a Marine mom, my son is in Okinawa right now. All of us Marine Moms understand what it means to be a Marine MOm, and we all feel your pain. One of my Marine Mom's son, participated in the honor guard at your son's funeral. My friend Cheloyne also told me of your loss. I wish I could say something to ease your pain. Thank you for raising a Marine, and thank you for his service to our country. Many people stand with you. Best to you always. Cinda

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  5. I am so sorry for your loss. RIP Caleb -- Semper Fi from the son of a Marine, and a thank you for your sacrifice to your country. May we never forget.

    I am thankful for all the love and support your family has received during this painful time, and a pray that you will have peace in your hearts that goes beyond our understanding.

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  6. What a beautiful post. Thank you for the biggest sacrifice a family can make for us to live free!

    Your son and your family in always be in my heart

    Betty Wilson
    Marine mom, Recon in training

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  7. Diane ~ My heart is filled with love and adoration for you and your family! Tho I may not have known Caleb in person, he was part of our family! May you find strength within your heart to get through this very difficult time! Semper Fi rings true...

    I'm so sorry for your loss!!

    A Recon Mom

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  8. Thank you Diane. You have demonstrated what it is to honor your son's life. Our son is in Recon training. We have begun to learn what it is to know that part of Caleb's life. May God bless your family and continue to strengthen you.

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  9. MY deepest condolences and most sincere thanks for your son. My God Bless you and keep you and your family, and that your son is now watching over you and protecting you from above.
    Marine Mom, Frieda Cialek

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  10. May God give you comfort thru this time. As a marine Mom this breaks my heart. May your son rest in peace in the loving arms of our Lord Jesus. Thank you Caleb for standing up for our country and becoming a marine. Your family and Caleb will always be a part of the Marine family. Praying for strength for your family in the coming days and also for his fellow marine brothers

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  11. In this hardest time, we offer you condolences. His service with the USMC is one of the things, that makes this country proud.

    Marine Dad

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  12. I am so sorry for your loss. I am the parent of a Marine who is getting close to completing the BRC program and my heart is broken. I don't know if you know who Michael Reagan is but he has offered to draw a portrait of your fallen hero, Caleb. Michael has done thousands of portraits of fallen heroes. If you would like, you may request a portrait through his website: http://www.fallenheroesproject.org/
    What he needs are some photos that you would like him to work from.

    Washington State Marine Mom

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